Preheat the oven to 400°F (200°C). Prepare a muffin tin by lining it with paper liners or greasing it thoroughly with cooking spray to prevent sticking.
In a large mixing bowl, combine the cornmeal, all-purpose flour, baking powder, baking soda, and salt. Mix well until all dry ingredients are evenly incorporated without any lumps.
In a separate bowl, whisk together the milk, vegetable oil, and eggs until the mixture is smooth and well combined.
Slowly pour the wet ingredients into the dry ingredients, mixing gently just until combined. Be careful not to over-mix to ensure the muffins remain light and fluffy.
Carefully fold in the shredded sharp cheddar cheese, minced jalapenos, corn kernels, and honey (if using). Use a spatula to mix until the ingredients are evenly distributed throughout the batter.
Using a spoon or ice cream scoop, fill each muffin cup with the batter, filling them about 2/3 of the way full to allow for rising during baking.
Place the muffin tin in the preheated oven and bake for 18-20 minutes, or until the muffins are golden brown on top and a toothpick inserted into the center comes out clean.
Once baked, remove the muffins from the oven and let them cool in the tin for about 5 minutes. After that, carefully transfer them to a wire rack to cool completely.
Notes
Serve warm, brushed with melted butter and sprinkle with cilantro. Consider serving with spicy honey for dipping.